For a long time, I was doing everything right on paper.
I was putting myself out there. Going on dates. Downloading the apps. Trying to stay positive and trust the process. And somehow, I kept ending up in exactly the same place. Heartbroken, confused, or stuck in something that felt just close enough to real to keep me hanging on, but never actually went anywhere.
I was a single parent doing it all on my own, and as exhausting as that was, the loneliness of my dating life was a different kind of hard. I kept attracting ghosters, commitment-phobes and people who were emotionally unavailable in increasingly creative ways.
Every single time, I found somewhere else to point the finger.
At them. At the apps. At the fact that there were apparently no decent people left anywhere in the world. The one place I never looked? Inward. It took working with my own coach and mentor to finally see what was actually going on.
I hadn't been unlucky. I'd been operating from an old identity, one built from past heartbreak and subconscious stories about love that had been quietly running my dating life without my permission.
Without realising it, I had been manifesting the same person over and over again. Just with a different face. Because that was what felt familiar. That was what my subconscious expected love to look like. So I did the inner work. I shifted my identity. I aligned my beliefs, my standards and my sense of self-worth with the version of me who was in a healthy, loving, secure relationship. And my dating life transformed completely.
I want to be honest with you about how my story ends, because I think it matters. As I did the work, something shifted that I hadn't expected. I stopped needing a partner to feel whole. I found a kind of contentment in myself that I'd spent years looking for in other people. I'm single now, and it's entirely by choice, not because I've given up on love, but because I found the greatest relationship of my life with myself.
But I want to be really clear: that was my outcome. My work isn't about getting you to stay single. It's about helping you get out of the cycles that are keeping you stuck so that you can go on to have a genuinely brilliant dating life and manifest the loving, secure, real relationship you actually want. That's what my clients come to me for. And that's exactly what I help them create. I believe the real reason I went through everything I did wasn't so I could find someone. It was so I could learn these methods and share them with every single woman who needs them.
Since 2020, I've worked with single women all over the world to help them transform their love lives from the inside out.
What makes my approach different is this: I don't do surface-level manifesting techniques. No scripting, no 369 methods, no dancing under a full moon hoping the Universe delivers. Those things might feel good in the moment but they don't get to the root of what's actually driving your results.
The root is always identity.
Your subconscious mind is running your dating life based on deeply held beliefs about love, about yourself and about what you think you're actually worthy of. Until those shift, your manifesting results won't either.
My work is focused entirely on that deep identity-level shift, using my own proven methods including my signature CREATE Method, to help you become the version of you who naturally attracts the relationship you want, rather than the patterns you've been stuck in.
I'd been single for 15 years without even one date before working with Katy. I didn't realise just how unaligned I was and it became obvious why I'd manifested awful people on repeat. I am now in an amazing relationship and happier than I think I've ever been. I couldn't have done that without implementing what I learned from Katy.'
— Sascha.
If any of this sounds familiar, you're in the right place.
You know the feeling of putting your phone down after another disappointing conversation and wondering what the point is.
You know what it's like to watch everyone around you pair off while you're still here, doing it all on your own, trying to stay positive about it even when it quietly breaks your heart.
You know the exhaustion of going on dates that go nowhere, of getting your hopes up and then having them dashed, of feeling like you're doing everything right and still ending up alone.
And maybe, somewhere underneath all of that, you've started to wonder if this is just how it's going to be for you.
It doesn't have to be.
The patterns that have been running your love life are not permanent. They're not who you are. They're just what happens when your subconscious is working from a version of you that hasn't been updated yet.
That's exactly what I help you change.
Whether you want to start with a free resource, work through one of my self-paced programmes or work with me directly, there's a place for you here.
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